Thursday, January 7, 2010

More quilt blocks & memories


I received this yellow quilt square from Vicki today. It doesn't show up very well in my picture, but it is really pretty.
Yellow is the ribbon color for bladder cancer. She stitched the square in honor of her grandfather, who died much too early from bladder cancer.

I stitched this quilt block in honor of my friend Carolyn. Blue is the color for colon cancer.
Carolyn was a good friend. She passed away 10 years ago this year at the age of 57 from colon cancer.
I angry with her. That anger has subsided over the years, but is still there. Why? Because Carolyn had EVERY sign that she had colon cancer and did nothing about it. Her mother had colon cancer and it ran all through her family. For over a week she was in severe pain, with severe colon symptoms and did nothing. By the time she went to the doctor all they could do was take most of her colon out and do a colostomy. It had spread to her liver.
Carolyn lived several years more, but her life was limited. Limited in what that vivacious woman could do.
A colonoscopy done a few years before could have prevented it. Her doctor had recommended it. Her family had encouraged her to do it. But she didn't have one because of the "embarrassment".
I miss my friend. Don't let any of your friends miss you too soon. Check with your doctor and see if he recommends a colonoscopy. It could save your life.

8 comments:

stitchinfiend said...

Lovely colours in the squares. What a sad story about your friend especially when it could have been prevented. Hugs

Mary said...

All those squares are turning out beautifully! Can't wait to see them all done and in the quilt.

Erin said...

Love the yellow bladder cancer pattern, my hubby has been fighting bladder cancer for yrs, finally lost his bladder and doc made him a new one from his colon, works like a real bladder, but cancer has since moved elsewhere

Mylene said...

Lovely squares for the quilt.

Debra said...

Very nice stitching. Sorry for your friend.

MaryT said...

really beautiful!

Carolyn NC said...

Lovely squares - so sorry about your friend.

Shelley said...

I am contemplating stitching a square for this quilt. Can you email me the specifics that I need to know...s.tompkins76@yahoo.com Thanks